tests: add more verification of output to divergence tests It's not obvious what the obsmarkers should look like in these tests and adding them highlights a bug that happens when commit we create to resolve the divergence doesn't get created because it would be empty. I also added a few graphlog calls to check that the divergence-resolution commit is in the right place (has right parentage).

test-drop.t
test-inhibit.t
test-simple4server.t
tests/test-simple4server-bundle2.t