[test] run unittest_syncschema with postgresql Lets us test more things, since we can actually do ALTER TABLE.

[test] run unittest_migractions on postgresql sqlite's lack of support for a bunch of alter table functionality means some thing just don't get tested otherwise.

[devtools] Put pg sockets in /tmp Makes for shorter paths (limited by sockaddr_un). Also use the default port, since we're not listening on TCP sockets.