[dataimport] make MetadataGenerator.META_RELATIONS customizable This should be done on the instance rather than on the class

[massive store] Rework constraint/index handling The basic idea is to keep the primary constraint on entities.eid since it's heavily used in metadata insertions. Other option would have been to drop / recreate but its very costly on big database, and the index is used for insertion into the entities table itself, so it's not worth droping it at a first glance. Also, keeping it avoids to systematically drop all constraints which depends on it. We may thus now lazily drop constraints, only on insertion of some etype/rtype for the related table. Related to #15538359

[massive store] Lazy removal of constraints and metadata indexes They should not be removed during store's init, because we may want to query the database with its index between store creation and call to prepare_insert* (e.g. to build the extid2eid map). Along the way: * rename drop_metadata_constraints into drop_metadata_indexes, because that's what it does * rework a bit impacted tests Closes #15538359