[schema] improve normalization of RQLExpressions
Parse and print back the expression instead of manipulating the string.
Among other benefits, it means we don't mangle embedded string constants
that contain commas or multiple spaces.
Closes #6694426
[server/rql2sql] use VariableRef.is_equivalent explicitly instead of relying on __eq__
What we want to compare is the variable referenced by the VariableRef,
we should make that explicit.
Closes #6694406