[debian] Update debian packaging (closes #16133259)
- use dh_python, pybuild and debhelper>=9,
- refactor and simplify the debian/rules,
- rename binary packages (but cubicweb-ctl) to python-xxx
- remove daemon handling stuff (initscripts...) from cubicweb-ctl (one should
now use a standard WSGI delivery method),
missing-dep-for-interpreter make => make | build-essential | dpkg-dev (usr/*/cubicweb/skeleton/debian/rules)