[repository] refactor and optimize '?1' relation handling
* only skip auto remove if activeintegrity is explicitly disabled
* do it even for inlined relation, so hooks are properly called
* on entity creation, only cleanup what's needed
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debian/tmp/usr/share/cubicweb/cubes/shared/data usr/share/cubicweb/cubes/shared
debian/tmp/usr/share/cubicweb/cubes/shared/wdoc usr/share/cubicweb/cubes/shared