[server] extract "no pooler" CnxSet class to a _BaseCnxSet class
So we get rid of "if self._queue is None" in each method of _CnxSetPool
Also add helper get_cnxset(source, size) to instantiate the correct pooler class.
### Requirements for tests in various cubicweb/**/test directories. ###
## shared by several test folders
docutils
webtest
## cubicweb/test
Pygments
pycryptodomex
#fyzz XXX pip install fails
## cubicweb/devtools/test
flake8
## cubicweb/hooks/test
psycopg2-binary
## cubicweb/pyramid/test
pyramid >= 1.5.0
waitress >= 0.8.9
wsgicors >= 0.3
pyramid_multiauth
repoze.lru
## cubicweb/sobject/test